LaVista Hills and How I Became a True Independent Voter

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I was solidly in the “Yes” camp for the proposed city of LaVista Hills from the moment I first heard about it. Having lived 6 of the past 7 years in the Briarcliff and Embry Hills neighborhoods and watching the explosion of property values and investment in nearby Brookhaven, I always wondered when it would be time for the NE corridor along I-85. The area is home to great schools, charming neighborhoods, good restaurants and convenient highway access.

We moved into the Nottaway neighborhood during the heat of the campaign for LaVista Hills and as a new (and first-time) homeowner, I was thrilled at the prospect at of a new city and increasing property values for our house.

The issues in Dekalb County were vast and still unknown, as we then began to learn over the next few months. Corruption, scandal, the approval of vast sums of taxpayer dollars with no input from said taxpayer for a soccer stadium while basic services went undone – sidewalks, potholes, water main leaks, etc. were all indicative of a government that cares nothing for its citizens. It seemed the only way to help ourselves was to change something and break away from the county in as many areas as we could.

And then, about a month or so ago, I read a few very well-thought out arguments on Nextdoor about voting “No” to LaVista Hills. One main line of thinking said that, after much time, there was finally a surge of momentum to clean up Dekalb County that had the strong potential to fizzle once a city was voted in. I didn’t disagree with this. In fact, I wholeheartedly agreed with it. And it was a great reason to vote “No” – better than false claims about higher taxes when all proposals have millage rates decreasing. Another reason was that the issues with the county would still remain in spite of a city – we can’t break out of Dekalb. That is also true.

I found myself in a very odd situation. I had been SO incredibly convinced but these reasoned, sound and well-proposed alternatives to cityhood had me reconsidering. After a little time had passed, it dawned on me that no matter how I voted, I could now safely and proudly affirm to being a TRUE Independent voter. I had finally shaken the shackles of being tied to one idea or party and was able to listen, process and consider all sides equally and potentially even change my view entirely based on new evidence, information, opinion and thoughtfulness. I hadn’t engaged in the petty back-and-forth on social media that served only to hurt other’s feelings. I had ignored the propaganda and looked at all the facts.

Deep down, I am an idealist and deep down I wanted to vote “No” to LaVista Hills because I wanted to take the opportunity NOW to improve the county, to assume and believe that it can and will be fixed. I struggled with this right up until today. The problem is that it’s up to us to fix the issues and as of yet, the citizens of this part of Dekalb County have not been active enough to do so. A local resident said that it doesn’t matter how we vote – city or no city – if we do not follow through after the voting to do the work, to be the change. He is right.

And then I came back to the quote from Albert Einstein: “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

I voted “Yes” to LaVista Hills.

Buford Highway 101: A Beginner’s Guide

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Buford Highway – known throughout Metro Atlanta and beyond as a mecca for ethnic cuisine, cheap eats, international grocery stores and boutiques selling foreign fashions. While the highway stretches almost 50 miles from Atlanta to Buford, GA, the area that continues to be featured in shows like Anthony Bourdain’s The Layover begins just north of Midtown Atlanta and runs through Chamblee, Doraville and Norcross

Within this area, there are over 1,000 immigrant-owned businesses. It can be very intimidating and daunting for a person to figure out where to eat or shop in this area. In some of the restaurants, little to no English is spoken and the menus are printed in the native language. And even in the more popular restaurants, how do you know what’s good? 

In this mini-series, I’ll take you through some popular BuHi restaurants and give tips on what to order so you can try them out armed with plenty of knowledge and no longer intimidated. New experiences are important and they don’t have to be scary! Continue reading

Spicy Collard Greens

IMG_4427Before I moved to Atlanta, I had had collards maybe once up north and they were not good. In fact, I’d never spent much time in the South before I moved here and so all the cuisine – and the history, ingredients and traditions that went along with it – were new to me. Collards were an immediate favorite of mine, mostly because I loved how they were different from restaurant to restaurant and home to home. I think those variations are what gives this dish its richness and interest – and I knew I wanted to try to make my own. I’ve received recipes from friends and found some online – this is my compilation of all of that plus the result of trial-and-error in my own kitchen. Enjoy! Continue reading

My Brother’s Wedding

tyler and kymLast year on September 12th, my  brother and his fiancee Kym helped Sean and I on our special day in Savannah. This year on September 12th, Sean and I were in the wedding of my brother and Kym. While we share the same anniversary, the weddings and the events leading up to it were very different. It’s always nice to be back in Ohio and this time was no exception. The four days were a complete whirlwhind for me and Sean – I can’t imagine how it must have been for Tyler and Kym! 

We arrived in Ohio on Thursday morning, having left Pittsburgh early that morning. Continue reading

24 Hours in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania

IMG_410624 hours is not a lot of time to spend in a city. It’s not a lot of time to spend with your friend who lives there, either. So what is the traveling friend to do? Some research. I studied up on what I wanted to do and leaned on my friend to fill in the gaps, make recommendations and tell us the best approach to maximize our time.

Guess what? It worked. We had a fabulous day in Pittsburgh with some tried-and-true activities and a few things that were new to my friend as well. It didn’t hurt that it was 75 degrees and sunny, either. 😉 Continue reading

Celebrating One Year of Marriage in Savannah, Georgia

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We celebrated our anniversary a little early (September 5th, as opposed to the 12th) and took advantage of the long Labor Day weekend to head back to Savannah. We arrived Friday night in time for a drink at The Distillery. The view from our hotel suite the next morning was fabulous and the sunny skies were all the motivation we needed to get to the beach! Continue reading

Can Awful Traffic Deliver Top Talent to Atlanta?

IMG_4225Traffic in Atlanta is horrible. Debilitating. Life-altering. I remember giving myself an hour to go ten miles. Surely, that would be enough time. It usually took 45 minutes in rush hour. On that day, it rained. So it took me 90 minutes to go what would have taken me 15 without traffic. It’s stressful and it’s a mess. 

The suburbs aren’t any better as surface streets become clogged by quickly-expanding and pooly planned communities, the new residents fighting to get onto one of the few highways. They inch along tens of miles of concrete towards a desk and a laptop in a tall glass building. 

Are there solutions? Continue reading